A few years back, a friend handed over a book to me entitled “Pain – the Gift Nobody Wants” by Dr. Paul Brand and Philip Yancey. At first I thought how could pain ever become a gift – no not ever!
Upon reading the book and just by the introduction alone, I became so enthralled in reading and finishing it. Never in my life until then, has a book left such a profound imprint in my life.
It is about leprosy patients in India. Dr. Paul Brand found out that damages to the hands and feel of leprosy patients are aggravated because they don’t feel pain at all.
They keep doing tasks that they’re not aware are damaging or injuring themselves even more. So, Dr. Brand and his team developed Tendon Transfer Techniques that will allow patients to bring back their lost sensation of pain once again thus, preventing possible injury and/or future damage to their hands and feet.
And so I was so astounded what he found – Pain is a Protective Mechanism in our body! It is a signal that something is wrong and as long as we are sensitive to it, we will be able to protect ourselves and avoid situations that may harm us further along the way. It will also help us heal.
Indeed, it changed my perspective not just the physical pain in my body but even so, in facing an emotional pain in life. When my mother suffered brain aneurysm in 2005, it brought pain to us as a family.
That only made us so mindful in taking care of her and even our own health as well. Thanks to this book which has opened my eyes to this GIFT – that nobody ever wants and to a friend that imparted this very remarkable book to me.
Does viewing pain as a gift make it easier for you to endure pain?
痛みを贈り物として見ると、痛みに耐えやすくなりますか?
それは難しいと思います。
痛みは痛みなので、耐えるのは苦痛です。
でも、理屈では痛みは贈り物だということは理解はできます。
I think viewing pain as a gift is very difficult. Because pain is pain, so it is difficult to endure. But I can understand the reason pain is a gift for us.
What is a painful experience you’ve recovered from?
あなたが回復した苦痛な経験は何ですか?
私が回復した苦痛は慢性膵炎です。
約10年前に病気になりました。
とても痛かったのですが、約2か月入院して回復することができました。
それから10年間、再び発病することはありませんでした。
The painful experience I have recovered is chronic pancreatitis. I got sick 10 years ago. It was really painful, but I recovered after 2 months of hospitalization. Ten years later, I have never had this illness again.
How did you handle painful situations in your life?
人生のつらい状況にどのように対処しましたか?
ケースワーカーさんなどに相談をしました。
人に話すことによって、つらい状況が幾分か緩和されたように思います。
でも、根本的な問題が解決しなければ、解消はしないと思います。
I consulted with caseworkers. By talking with people, I think the severe situation would make some easier. But, if the underlying problems are not solved, the situation would not change.
Tell me how a painful experience changed your perspective on life.
辛い経験があなたの人生観をどのように変えたか教えてください。
日々を大切に生きようを思いました。
また、他の人に優しくいようと思いました。
さらに、困っている人がいたら、助けてあげようと思いました。
I thought I should live cherish every day. Also I thought I should be kind to other people. Farther more I thought if there are people in trouble, I would help them.
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